None should cry for the loss of a superstar athlete, they should cry for the girl who lost her privacy and was taken advantage of. As Mallory Ortberg said, "“Their dreams and hopes were not crushed by an impersonal, inexorable legal system; Mays and Richmond raped a girl and have been sentenced accordingly.” While it disturbs me that the media is handling the Steubenville case this way, it doesn't surprise me at all. In fact, numerous blog posts and news stories have already been written claiming that the whole case is simply being exaggerated. The website "The Other McCain" writes, "It seems that we may be witnessing a typical case of media malpractice, in which a crew of irresponsible bloggers and “hacktivists” are ginning up false accusations without regard for truth, and without concern for the harm done to innocent citizens of Steubenville," some details might be exaggerated, but a rape is a rape and an assault is an assault. That alone makes the aggressors guilty and the victim innocent.
This can all be chalked up to rape culture, a phenomenon deeply embedded in our lives. We as a culture have a common phrase, "boys will be boys." That phrase acts as a special get out of jail free card for any man who commits an unjust act such as this. Instead of analyzing why young men would behave in such a cruel way, we ascertain whether or not the victim's claims are legitimate. We claim that the victim must be to blame for some aspect of the crime, because there's no way that young high school boys could ever commit a crime so commonly associated with true evil. Slate's Amanda Marcotte describes it perfectly, "Claiming that it’s the victim’s fault for tempting men with her drinking/sexual activity/mini-skirt means telling yourself that as long as you aren’t as ‘slutty’ as the victim, you’ll be OK," and in turn, it protects the public from the knowledge that crimes are committed by normal people, not the evil monsters engendered from nightmares. Normal boys, young all-star athletes, even, can rape and molest and ruin someone. Instead of facing that reality though, the media hides behind the guise that there must have been something to cause them to act this way. The boys are given love and sympathy because something else has seemingly thrown their lives away, when it was their decision to rape in the first place. They might have been drunk, but plenty of people get intoxicated without raping a girl and tweeting about it.
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